Most men find initiating sex overwhelming. They either overthink it or avoid it entirely in the wait for "the perfect moment" that never really comes.
Okay, honest question for the men here... What throws you out of connection the fastest during intimacy?
There's a question I get more often than you'd think: "Why don't I feel much during sex?" It's rarely about anatomy. It's about attention.
I've been thinking a lot lately about this Reddit comment I read from a woman: "By myself? 5 minutes. With him? Almost never." π
It's been a month since Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger came out. Surreal is the only word that fits. The feedback has been so incredible, and it matters. π
Last month, I posted a video breaking down the 5 signs women give when they're interested, and it ended up going viral. π
Quick question for my Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger readers π Whatβs one belief or perception you had about sex or performance that changed completely after reading the book? π The kind of shift where you canβt un-see it now. What was it for you? I'm curious!
There's a pattern of books written by men who think they've "figured out" female pleasure, reduce the clitoris to a "love button," and miss the point entirely. π
It's been a week since Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger came out.π₯Ίπ And I'm sitting here reading your messages all week.
Here's something most guys don't realize: Your body can be fully aroused and still not be ready for sex. You can want it mentally, feel turned on physically, and still notice your erection isn't cooperating the way you expect. π
Did you get your hands on the book yet? ππ And if you have... I'm really CURIOUS! What part are you in right now?
I can't keep calm because my book 'Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger' is going live tomorrow! And I just realised that I haven't really let this sink in yet.
This is how the book starts. That first line has been sitting with me for a long time. Long before there was a manuscript. Long before there was a title. π
I wanted to share this with you here. We're in the final pre-order window for 'Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger', and I've been thinking a lot about how this book came to life through years of conversations with men who were never given a clear, shame-free education about their bodies. ππ
This is your final reminder before doors close. The 'From Pressure to Power' free virtual summit is happening this week, and this is the final window to join us. ππ
Quick question for you... If you could ask Doc Hink one question about your body, erections, hormones, or confidence - what would it be?π
Ok, so this is something l often observe in men. When you're touching a partner, especially her clitoris, a lot of your attention isn't on the sensation or the connection. π
Happy New Year, you all! ππ₯My wish for you this year? Less performing, more actually feeling. Less "am I doing this right?" More "oh... my body and I are finally on the same team."
Happy New Year, you all!ππ₯ My wish for you this year? Less performing, more actually feeling. Less "am I doing this right?" More "oh... my body and I are finally on the same team."
I've been waiting to share this with you...We're officially hosting the From Pressure to 'Power Summit' - a full, live HBLS experience built around the conversations men rarely get to have, but absolutely deserve. π
One of the biggest things I teach in my new book "Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger" is this: Desire doesn't decline because you get older... It declines because you stop paying attention to the things that keep your body feeling safe, turned on, and connected.