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Jenny V

I will have to politely disagree with you. Literally everything nick said is the reason he said yes, his friends were there watching him and he still hasn’t accepted his sexuality so he’s going to be compelled to adhere to social pressure. Not to mention that she asked him out in front of everyone, I don’t know if I was in his situation I wouldn’t really want to say no either just to not embarrass the person and for the fact that people will now question why he didn’t say yes to her. He then tried to tell her he didn’t want to go on a date with her at school but then well she was already upset and he’s far too nice to make someone even more upset by refusing to go on that date. As for nick being like Ben… erm no absolutely no. Nick said yes due to social pressure mostly which is just very common in teens honestly, Ben had his tongue down some girls throat whilst dating Charlie and not telling him. It’s really not similar at all. Not to mention that if this was any other bl or really any tv show he would’ve went on that date and it would’ve caused an even worse misunderstanding but no nick dealt with it pretty well in my opinion. I get why you would maybe think he’s making excuses I guess but nick has been constantly shown to be far too nice and empathetic to literally everyone for me it wouldn’t have made sense if he didn’t say yes in that situation with all of his friends and her friends there when he’s still in the closet and doesn’t know anything about his sexuality. As for why he’s friends with them still… I’d honestly just say familiarity, I know as someone who’s had friends who were in terrible groups it’s mostly to do with not wanting to change and because they’re used to hanging out with those people and if they were to say join a different friend group it would incite a lot of questions as to why they’re not hanging out with their old group and in nick’s case I think it would lead to questions he doesn’t really want to be asked right now when he doesn’t have solid answers. As for tao and Elle, they’re aren’t together just friends for now!

Cédric Bardoux

For people who need friends, social pressure is a tyrant. They basically becomes slaves. I was lucky to love my solitude, my lonesomeness. Therefore, social pressure was nothing, I was internally laughting at it. I do feel sorry for Nick who have to obey ''society''. It is always easy to say I prefer to be lonely than to be awfully accompanied but actually, I can say it very easily. The reason is the simpliest of all: first of all, I am my own best friend. That simple think is always the fisrt to be forgotten by people; their defense is always the same: if you are your own best friend, you are egoist. Well, yes... egoism is a very good choice as long its stay egoism and not derivating in its toxic self that is called egocentrism.

David A Bryant

Been there done the same thing as Nick. When I came out to the world I had a best gal pal also and she asked me to go out, I said yes then after a short time I came up with a lame ass excuse not to go. We had the "talk" the next day and we decided to be friends only. I feel for Nick in his quest for self awareness---the waters can be very rough sometimes. I was bullied by some older classmates that were supposedly friends. I survived by finding new better friends that I still have today 50+ years later. Nick will find his way. Charlie is on his own path to learn about Nick and to be nonjudgmental and supportive. I feel he is taking things slow as a means of self protection and so he does not scare off his potential new boyfriend. BTW the series has been renewed for two more seasons by Netflix. I can hardly wait!

TC

I liked this reaction, I don't think Nick ever acted like was it Ben, I forgot the jerks name lol as we should. But I understand where it can seem like that. It is hard when your around group of people and you start to change and want to branch out. In HS friends chose to hang out with new girls who were Btchs they were just really mean. I told my friends in advance, I won't eat lunch with those girls ever again, so I went on my own. It was super awesome, I hung out with people I hadn't seen for a long time and within 2 weeks my friends realized what I had and finally left those horrible girls. But I grew as a person, and started to broaden my friend group. Speaking of being friends with your teamates. I was on a dance team from 6-11 some girls were annoying but we still got along for the sake of the team. I took a break to heal my recurring sprained ankle, every year for 9 years ahhhh. So freshman year of HS I started on the school dance team. I was 2 years younger than everyone else and they seemed so immature to me, I really didn't like them, plus they were stuck up, like other schools parents even knew how stuck up the team was. So I made friends with all the other schools teams at dance camp. It was way better. My team was like, you have to eat with us and stay with us, the other teams said. She can eat with whoever she wants its freetime lol. My real friends sat next to our spots at the football games just so I could be with them. I had to give up my dance team next year, I just couldn't deal. Then I learned the new girls were people I actually liked. It was good. I wanted a life not to just practice and perform every sat. But it sucks when your team sucks. Sorry for the novel.