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Poki : How has the matcha shortage affected your consumption at all? Personally it really makes me second guess getting it at cafes due to quality. Lily: I love the ivory lilies album! Any plans for another album? Compilation or semi-new like an EP?

Fivox

Any plans for an in-person Sweet & Sour? I would totally go to any convention just to attend a Sweet & Sour Podcast panel.

Jess

Question for both of you: If you had to restart your entire content creator carreer (without anyone knowing who you were), how would you go about it in this day and age? What would you do different?

Mina Nehko

Say you had a friend in a wheelchair. Would yall adapt plans to include that person. Or would they just not be invited to anything? Asking this as I’m in a wheelchair. I have Friedreich’s ataxia.

Keziah Elysiah

Hey cuties~★ (⁠◡⁠ ⁠ω⁠ ⁠◡⁠) Any dating advice for a girlypop - who's never really tried dating (except for e-dating/ long distance YvY)??? When I get crushes I'm usually too shy to go up to people to start a conversation (what if they don't like me or I'm bothering them AHHHHHH-) ORRR when I do get their contact I try to message about values and interests to keep engaged and end up being ghosted LOL So excited the pod is back! YIPEEEEEE 🙈🎀💞✨

Grayisnotthere

what are some funny/difficult moments you both had when moving out for the first time? i'm moving out from my parents this year and i'm so nervous!

Seth Tatum

Im gonna get straight into it my baby mama is mad at my family for them not bringing a gift to the baby shower my family is throwing for us. So a couple months ago we had our gender reveal and i paided for everything except the food my family brought because they wanted to, we said are your sure and they insisted so they brought there food one less thing for me to worry bout her side and my side had a few ppl who didnt bring nun which was fine wit me cuz its our first time bringing both our familes together and celebratin our baby then our moms said they gonna throw our baby shower togetha fo us and my mom stepped up

Pixel 12 games

Genuine question, how do yall lock in? Im in my final year of university, and for my entire life, whether its ADHD or whatever or however, ive kinda struggled staying focused for the entirety of my academic career. Unfortunately tho like most people i have big dreams and goals, which means ive had to live my life in a very specific way to keep myself productive, whether its strict schedules or intensive deadlines, my life is kinda like one big game of jenga and if i make one mistake it all falls apart. As a result, i dont really make a lot of friends that arent related to being productive, as im really bad with setting boundaries with my time, and i eventually begin to resent them and pervert people into "time wasters" or "Distractions". I want to hear y'all perspectives on this, as its beginning to drive me crazy and graduation means a new opportunity to re-examine how i work, and how to made productivity work without the cost of myself.

Char

Very important question, what is your favorite buldak flavor?

Kitana Cross

Hai! Poki and Lily, you both are beautiful queens teehee!! I need some girl advice! I had a super close friend who I knew since 2016 and we were besties from 2018 until I chose to cut her off in 2024. Why I cut her off, let me give y'all the story. (this is gonna be long. TLDR at the bottom!) (Lets call this her C) C asked to stay over at my place late Nov 2023, we both lived in different cities, initially I was so excited to see her. We hadn't seen each other since 2020. But then I find out the reason C is visiting is because, she is interested in this guy (lets call him L) , who she met online through my irl friend (Lets call her A). L and A live in the same city as me, and C lives in a different one. They've been slowly getting to know each other for the last few months. I also later find out, she originally wanted to stay over at A’s place, but since C’s parents don’t know A well. They said no. Originally I chose to shrug it off and just be happy that she would be visiting. But during the time C was staying over, she was mostly on her phone texting L. I get it though, honeymoon phase. But I put away my plans to spend time with her. She didn't show any manners while staying at my place, leaving messes, not putting things away. By the end of the stay I was exhausted. Not knowing how she would treat me. C's birthday was a few days after she would leave my city and I really wanted to throw her a surprise birthday. So I gathered L and A and my bf to help make a special dinner for her. L and I bought matching jewelry to give her as a present. In the end I definitely regretted doing this. I was so happy when she went home. I really needed my alone time. I ranted to my old friend group (they all know C very well), NONE of them were surprised. I guess, I was the only one who was blinded by a "close and long term" friendship. I didn’t realize she had done similar things to other friends and myself in the past. But I choose to keep my emotions in and tell myself, it's okay I got through it. And it wouldn't happen again. I was wrong. It happened again.. Late March 2024, C texts me, Hey, can I stay over at your place again NEXT SATURDAY. I knew she just wanted to see L. I have nothing against this guy,He seems to be a nice person. But between C’s last stay and now. We barely talked, she barely texted. But she clearly wants to visit my city to see L. Why are you asking to stay with me, go stay with him. But I know her parents and they wouldn’t allow it. I felt bad rejecting since I know her mum so I told her sure. After my approval she proceeds to ask me, can I have dinner with L that Saturday night she’s arriving in my city. Me thinking to myself, so you want to drop off your stuff and mine and go have dinner with him? Without me? In the end L had something to do and the 2 of us had dinner together. Nothing eventful happened when she stayed over, she still treated my place the same. By the end of her stay I knew that I was done with this friendship. 2 Months later. I choose to tell her that I do not want to engage with her and she doesn’t have the friendship I need and want. I list all the things she’s made me feel and tell her she can’t change my mind. She replies to it with excuses to why she did those things, telling me if I didn’t want her to stay over I could’ve said no, Yes I could have but if she is visiting to meet her Bf L and not to actually hang out with me. Why ask then, cause my place is a free air bnb for you? I don’t live alone either, I live with my parents. They knew that C was a super close friend, so they didn’t mind her staying over. Anyway she was mad I chose to cut her off over this. Ranted to L and A but I don’t think those 2 understood what I went through. But it's been almost 2 years and I chose to re-follow her on instagram. TLDR. Had a close friend of around 6 years, I was blinded by a close and long-term friendship, and didn't realize they treated me and others poorly. Neglected me when she got a bf. Used me for free accommodation twice and didn’t show common manners. Cut them off after the incident, they gave excuses and “angry texted”. But I recently chose to refollow them on instagram to be mutuals again. Now I need advice, I have been lowkey and wanting to talk to her again. I don’t know if it's impulsive, to just wish I had a close friend again. To just wish she understood why and changed. I have heard from other friends that they doubt she will ever change. Some of my close friends don’t think I should make this decision and reach out to try to be friends again. What do you both think about this situation? THANK YOU FOR MAKING SWEET AND SOUR, I love you both!! I listen to it in my sleep!