Backlash/comments regarding my BBC audio. (Patreon)
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Hi Guys! 💜
I want to talk about one pretty hot topic, or should I say - one pretty hot reason why some people's asses blew up? Anyway, if you follow me on X (or if you are on my server) , you know what I mean. But I decided to actually explain myself properly and comment on some... backlash I received.
Okay, so. I've made one audio featuring BBC, for my WatchMe tier. I want to mention right away that this topic has always been quite painful/delicate/tricky for a lot of people in VA community - for obvious reasons. Creators don't want to come across as racists, as someone who fetishizes people of colour, they don't want to offend or insult POC in any way. Including me. That's why I've been avoiding mentioning any skin colour for quite some time in my public audios - but after multiple requests, I decided to give it a try. I did my best not to cross any line, I definitely tried not to focus too much on ethnicity of the character. IDk if I succeeded - it's for you to decide. This area is still grey for me and I appreciate any feedback/suggestions, you know that. BUT what I do not appreciate in any shape or form - is the flow of insults I received after uploading this audio. Let's break it down:
1. "What happened to no Race Play, you racist disgusting whore" - nothing happened, Race Play is still in my "Red Flag" list so to say. But I figured, that the definition itself can be absolutely different for every person. For me, race play - is focusing on a certain race (duh), objectifying certain race, fetishizing certain race. I've never done that and not planning to. Yes, I mentioned that one of the characters is black - in what world it is considered a Race Play? Honestly, I am confused.
2. "You mentioned black people to get attention" - if I wanted (this kind of) attention, I would have done it long ago.
3. "You are racist" - No I am not. My content is inclusive, or at least I've always tried to make all of my listeners to feel included. At least when it comes to things like Ethnicity. I rarely mention anything that might indicate race/ethnicity.
4. "You are a BBC loving whore" - No comments tbh.
5. "All cucks/bulls are *****" - anyone who thinks that way, can just go and fuck themselves. And not in a respectful/kind way.
6. And last (but not least) - why I answer to some of those hateful messages. Because I believe that "being a bigger person" doesn't always work. You send me shit and insult me in my DMs, especially if you are doing this anonymously? Okay, the least I can do is to express exactly how I feel about your insecure pathetic ass. Sorry not sorry.
I really hope you guys know that I respect each and every one of you - I am incredibly lucky to have such a supportive and open minded audience. I really want to provide a safe and friendly space for each of you to enjoy your kinks without feeling judged or insulted. BUT I have zero tolerance for incels/racists/haters and just rude fckn assholes. I don't need them in my space. Our space.
So feel free to express your opinions in comments - and let's be nice, shall we?
All the haters will be blocked ASAP. Thank you for understanding.
Take care. Hugs. 💋